Why it's harder to find a partner these days — and how matchmaking is making sense

Marijana Erić
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Published
October 19, 2025
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October 19, 2025

The speed of life and the paradox of choice

We live fast and make decisions under pressure, so love life often remains “for later”. At the same time, too many options create fatigue and make it difficult to make a clear choice.

Applications: more matches, fewer encounters

Algorithms give the impression of choice, but rarely help to get to a quality live conversation. Superficial communication and lack of time make good meetings easy to miss.

Values in front of the algorithm

A mature relationship begins with shared values, a compatible lifestyle, and realistic expectations. This is not measured by swiping, but by understanding what is really important to you.

Matchmaking as a personal filter

Matchmaker undertakes research, vetting and matching so that you invest your energy only in meeting potential. You will receive suggestions that match your criteria, not general criteria.

Discretion and peace

The process is discreet, clear and frees you from unnecessary steps. Instead of noise and uncertainty, you get structure and security in your own choices.

What it looks like in practice

It starts with a short, focused conversation about your priorities. Then you get a carefully selected proposal to get to know and support in the first steps — if you want it.

Fewer random matches, more meaningful encounters

The goal is not “as much as possible”, but “good enough and truly yours”. When the pace is aligned with the values, the encounters become less frequent, but of better quality.

Saving time, without giving up

Matchmaking returns the hours you would have spent on messages with no outcome. And at the same time, you stay true to yourself - to your limits, your desires and your pace.

Who is this for

For those who value privacy, quality and clarity more than endless scrolling. For those who want someone expert to filter the options while keeping control of the decision in their hands.

Conclusion: intention instead of coincidence

When someone competent searches on your behalf according to your criteria, the chances of finding the right person increase. Less noise — more chemistry and compatibility.